10 March 2017

Abiding…6 – The place of unknowing


Now we see in a mirror, in a riddle, but then we will see face to face.  Now I know in part; then I will know fully, even as I am fully known [I Cor. 13: 12].

The Greek word Paul uses is “enigma” (εν αινιγματι).  Faith in God, Christian allegiance, does not draw the veil aside to explain much at all.  If you are looking for your questions to be answered, your doubts resolved… if you want assurance about belief and about what’s right and what’s wrong… if you want to live in some safety zone where things don’t go wrong, where no one ever lets you down… then you’re seriously out of luck.  Yet people come to the church with those expectations, and in some ways the church has encouraged them.  St Paul says that life and faith remain cloaked in mystery.  What John’s Gospel calls abiding, what St Paul calls being “in Christ”, deepens our capacity to live fully in that place of unknowing, to live with uncertainty and unresolvedness – along with, as we well know, the continuing realities of pain and loss, unfairness, inequity… all the issues the Psalmist complained about – the income gap, the wicked thriving, the children suffering. 

Now abiding, as we have been hearing, is a mutual abiding.  I abide in him, he abides in me.  It finds expression most clearly in our form of prayer based on stillness and silence, in which we make space, we do what we can (which often isn’t much) to set self aside.  In this discipline, then, as weeks and years go by, we find our self-concern attenuating, weakening, assuming less prominence.  This is not something we could decide and do ourselves.  We are consenting to this change brought by the Spirit of the Risen Christ abiding in us.  This gentle process begins to modify our reactions and feelings widely, far beyond our actual prayer. 

One of the fruits of this, we have seen, is the process of discernment.  To the extent that self is no longer determining everything, we are (says Sarah Bachelard) deepening our capacity to dwell in the place of unknowing, we are more able to suspend premature judgement or solutions.  One surprise may be that we are not as afraid as we used to be of what could happen.  We have less need of fences, walls, battlements – rather, we are finding a better sense of spaciousness and possibility and the future.  We lose our fear of being wrong.   To the extent moreover that the church learns contemplative prayer and discernment, it becomes better able to be sensible and wise in Christian action in the secular world. 

Sarah Bachelard described the culture in which we find ourselves living the faith we have.  In her words… We live in highly opinionated and reactive times, in a culture that often exhibits arrogant certainty, impatience with waiting and with the vulnerability of real listening… (A culture of) winning and losing, listening for weakness and exploiting it… demand for instant results, readily measurable outcomes, manageable key performance indicators…  The committed practice of discernment is profoundly counter-cultural, she says.  Yet… if we are to act in our families, communities, businesses and nations truly responsive to the truth of things, to the will of God, then it’s this capacity for discernment above all that we need to strengthen and practise.  And this is a gift that contemplative persons and communities must model and make available.[1]



[1] Quotations are from Sarah Bachelard: For Love of the World: Contemplation, Faith and the Active Life – Talks to the NZCCM retreat, Hamilton NZ, January 2017… Talk 3.

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