19 October 2018

Not so among you – 19 October 2018


James and John ask Jesus an infantile question about seating arrangements in the kingdom of heaven.  Yet again Jesus reminds them, it is not about precedence or greatness or mutual importance.  That is the way the gentiles think, he says.  It shall not be so among you.[1] 

There are subtleties of Greek translation here.  Jesus is not, as it were, ordering them, commanding them, about their behaviour.  He is not telling them to be humble.  James and John may have been trying to stake out for themselves high places in the order of precedence in the kingdom – we can assume that others of them had their own hopes about that – but I don’t think Jesus is responding here by requiring them not to think that way. 

He is saying what we often say in contemplative life and prayer, that time in Jesus’s company does in fact change us.  In time to come they won’t be thinking that way, he is saying.  And indeed, in a discipline of loving discipleship, prayerful silence and attention, however intermittent and erratic it may be at times, we do begin to discover values shifting, fears and anxieties lessening, steadiness increasing, love and compassion emerging where it was not so prominent before…  It seems to me that Jesus is simply observing to his disciples, who prognosticated about who would be greater, that they would change.  They would lose that need for recognition, power or control.  The greatest among them would be servant of all.  That is the way it would turn out among them, I think he is saying.

In the 21st century there are all sorts of ways in which in fact we need power or authority – being powerless is not good in modern society.  It is not power that is wrong, but the misuse of power – whether it is in high politics and policies, or whether it is any form of bullying, or some employer sordidly demanding favours from an employee wanting promotion.  When people of wisdom and goodwill find themselves in positions of power, and where they are able to use that power for good, it is a wonderful thing – and it is a form of servanthood in Jesus’s terms. 

Servant never means servile.  Jesus’s statement, it shall not be so among you, expresses his faith that his followers will use whatever powers they acquire, humbly and well, and to enhance God’s creation.  If you think about it, much power resides within the family unit – power to encourage or to cause despair, power to embrace or to alienate… the family can make or ruin people’s lives, children’s lives.  Horribly, I would think, too often in Christian history, “the Christian family”, elevated as an ideal, has in fact masked oppression or restriction.  This is reflected in much of our literature and biography. 

It shall not be so among you…  Our discipleship is to be prayerful and thoughtful in our basic relationships – husband, wife, parent, sibling, friend, employer, citizen, church member… and as Jesus pointed out, our relationship includes our kindness towards ourselves.



[1] Mark  10:43; Matthew 20:26;  Luke 22:26

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