13 December 2013

Learning patience – 13 December 2013


The epistle for next Sunday is from the little-used Letter of James.  Martin Luther famously called it an epistle of straw.  It is nothing of the kind:

Be patient, therefore, beloved, until the coming of the Lord. The farmer waits for the precious crop from the earth, being patient with it until it receives the early and the late rains. You also must be patient. Strengthen your hearts, for the coming of the Lord is near. Beloved, do not grumble against one another, so that you may not be judged. See, the Judge is standing at the doors! [James 5: 7-9]

It’s all very well to talk about being patient, when advancing decrepitude means you don’t have much option.  You can’t run any more anyway, and you are retired and there’s not much reason to rush around as there once was.  Multi-tasking turns out to be not only difficult but dangerous.  It’s smart to learn the virtues of patience.  You are amazed at the people who get on the escalator at Countdown and still actually walk or even run up or down it.  They can’t simply stand still and wait.

But all this is to misunderstand what the word means.  Patience is from the Latin word, to suffer.  Being patient is a mature quality, knowing how to take the rough with the smooth, how to postpone or do without satisfaction. Patient is not passive.  A patient person not only is able to bear pain, but has learned that pain and injustice are everywhere.  It is an unjust world.  James reminds Jesus’s followers that they are not living in some safe cocoon of faith where all is well. 

That is why he also says, Beloved, do not grumble against one another.  And here I may be walking over eggshells... but James is saying that the kind of patience which marks Christian discipleship and Christian fellowship is accepting or at least understanding of human perversity and silliness.  It bears with other people – in which enterprise, I may say, a lively sense of the ridiculous helps quite a lot.  St Benedict knew that in any monastery there will be monks with smelly feet, nuns with blocked sinuses, people teetering towards lunacy accompanied by halitosis – and so, in his Rule he repeatedly warns against grumbling (sine murmuratione).  Grumbling badly damages the community.  It is a matter of discipline in a Christian fellowship that we do not grumble.  Put positively, it matters that we have learned patience, that our expectations are sensible and realistic, that we make room for human difference.  We come to gain pleasure from difference and eccentricity.

Moreover, this is Advent teaching.  James writes about waiting in patience.  He says the Judge is standing at the doors.  He wrote in the early Jerusalem church where they were always threatened by real oppression and persecution.  Patience and endurance is necessary equipment, and a sense of what matters and what doesn’t.  Our contemplative stillness and silence can equip us with a large and generous spirit.  Sometimes, even at my great age I confess, I am considerably tested in this regard.  But we get there.  At any rate, all our impatience and grumbling gets folded into the stillness of prayer, where Christ’s Spirit is making us into better disciples. 

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