16 June 2017

Holy kissing - 16 June 2017


A question was asked last time we met, about St Paul inviting the Corinthian Christians to greet one another with a holy kiss.  You will find this at the end of I Corinthians, and again at the end of II Corinthians.[1]  Maybe kissing everyone was routine behaviour in Corinth, whereas back in Jerusalem it might have got you into bother.  The question had me looking around the passage, only to find all sorts of things to wonder about…   Listen to how Paul signs off what we call his second letter: 

Finally, brothers and sisters, farewell.  Put things in order.  Listen to my appeal.  Agree with one another.  Live in peace.  And the God of love and peace will be with you.  Greet one another with a holy kiss…

Put things in order…  Without knowing specifically what Paul had in mind, we can ask what it might mean around here for things to be put in order.  Maybe they need to be put in order anew each day… making some decisions for ourselves about priorities.  We call in question the requirements of the troublesome ego, demanding as it is always to be fed and pampered, and dressed up.  As the ego steadily disappears from its primacy, the true self emerges, the self that was always there, created and loved by God from the beginning, the self open to God’s Spirit.  So to that extent -- which is a large extent -- things are getting put in order, slowly and steadily, one might think, day by day. 

Listen to my appeal, writes Paul.  He wants them to pay attention to his teaching as an apostle.  Having or finding a teacher, listening and according respect, has become a shaky virtue in our culture – in II Timothy the writer describes people: who having itching ears… accumulate for themselves teachers to suit their own desires and… turn away from listening to the truth and wander into myths.[2]  We now have websites where school pupils can actually grade their teachers and post sometimes offensive comments about them.  In the ancient world, and even today in some cultures, the teacher is always accorded a special place of respect.  Jesus, we read in the gospels, taught with authority.  Paul, for all his human failings, was also a teacher of authority.  Christian spiritual growth always needs this careful virtue of humble and attentive listening.

Agree with one another…  You may have to agree to differ.  What matters is that you understand why the other person thinks, says, does what they do.  This kind of agreement is certainly a fruit of contemplative prayer and life.   Formerly in Corinth they were at each other’s throats – that is entirely out of order in the fellowship of Christ.  And so Paul adds: Live in peace… 

After all that I still don’t know about the kiss.  The Greek says a holy kiss (εν αγιω φιληματι).  Well, I’m a little wary of those ones too. 



[1] I Cor. 16:20, and II Cor. 13:12
[2] II Timothy 4:4

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